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Kate-ay@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 day ago

Do any bald ladies find wigs to be worth the cost and discomfort?

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Do any bald ladies find wigs to be worth the cost and discomfort?

Kate-ay@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 day ago
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Krrygon@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago

Six years in one image!

files.catbox.moe

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Six years in one image!

files.catbox.moe

Krrygon@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago
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zeezee@slrpnk.netEnglish · 3 days ago

Does anyone else struggle with the concept of self-acceptance and how that relates to their transness?

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Does anyone else struggle with the concept of self-acceptance and how that relates to their transness?

zeezee@slrpnk.netEnglish · 3 days ago
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dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 days ago

watching TransGeneration

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watching TransGeneration

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dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 days ago
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blaze@programming.devEnglish · 7 days ago

Being myself, even though it's scary

programming.dev

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Being myself, even though it's scary

programming.dev

blaze@programming.devEnglish · 7 days ago
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VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 7 days ago

Okay, how the fuck do I stop comparing myself to other women?

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Okay, how the fuck do I stop comparing myself to other women?

VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 7 days ago
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jamie_veal (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 8 days ago

How did you choose your names?

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How did you choose your names?

jamie_veal (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 8 days ago
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IntensityLad@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 10 days ago

About my first step experience.

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About my first step experience.

IntensityLad@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 10 days ago
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Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 10 days ago

The 40 Year Egg Thinks She Wants to Finally Hatch

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The 40 Year Egg Thinks She Wants to Finally Hatch

Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 10 days ago
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kluczyczka (she/her)@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish · 11 days ago

i feel like i didn't do my homework

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i feel like i didn't do my homework

kluczyczka (she/her)@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish · 11 days ago
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Little Femboy💞@lemmy.worldEnglish · 11 days ago

i'm soo bored :(

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i'm soo bored :(

Little Femboy💞@lemmy.worldEnglish · 11 days ago
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da_cow (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 14 days ago

Just had my first panic attack :3

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Just had my first panic attack :3

da_cow (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 14 days ago
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da_cow (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 14 days ago

My boobs hurt

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My boobs hurt

da_cow (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 14 days ago
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Shirow@lemmy.zipEnglish · 16 days ago

Dysphoria crisis.

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Dysphoria crisis.

Shirow@lemmy.zipEnglish · 16 days ago
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jamie_veal (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 16 days ago

It was gender dysphoria all along!

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It was gender dysphoria all along!

jamie_veal (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 16 days ago
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applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 17 days ago

I'm getting feelings for someone and I don't know what to do.

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I'm getting feelings for someone and I don't know what to do.

applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 17 days ago
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Katerina@lemmy.zipEnglish · 19 days ago

Men becoming violent with you for not wanting sex with them?

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Men becoming violent with you for not wanting sex with them?

Katerina@lemmy.zipEnglish · 19 days ago
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Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 19 days ago

An introduction and a thank you

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An introduction and a thank you

Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 19 days ago
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CheeseCakeCat@lemmy.worldEnglish · 19 days ago

[Big rant] I doubt HRT will fix me

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[Big rant] I doubt HRT will fix me

CheeseCakeCat@lemmy.worldEnglish · 19 days ago
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jamie_veal (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 20 days ago

I'm genuinely laughing.

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I'm genuinely laughing.

jamie_veal (she/her)@feddit.orgEnglish · 20 days ago
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Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone

mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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    A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

    This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

    Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.

    • Please follow the rules of the lemmy.blahaj.zone instance.
    • Bigotry of any kind will not be tolerated.
    • Gatekeeping will not be tolerated.
    • Please be kind and respectful to all.
    • Please tag NSFW topics.
    • No NSFW image posts.
    • Please provide content warnings where appropriate.
    • Please do not repost bigoted content here.

    This community is supportive of DIY HRT. Unsolicited medical advice or caution being given to people on DIY will result in moderator action.

    Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.

    Some helpful links:

    • The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
    • Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
    • LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
    • Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
    • TLDEF’s Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
    • TransLifeLine’s ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.

    Support Hotlines:

    • The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
    • TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
    • LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
    • 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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    Blåhaj Lemmy
    A general purpose lemmy instance for gender diverse folk and their allies.

    Blåhaj Lemmy

    Blåhaj Lemmy is brought to you by the kind folk at Blåhaj Zone, and while anyone is free to register for an account here, please bear in mind that this is a server that is very protective of our minority members and bigotry of any variety will be squashed with great prejudice.

    We have several alternative lemmy frontends you can use. Just login with your regular blahaj login details.

    • https://tes.lemmy.blahaj.zone/
    • https://alx.lemmy.blahaj.zone/
    • https://mlmym.lemmy.blahaj.zone/.
    • https://phtn.lemmy.blahaj.zone/

    We have a public matrix channel for all Blahaj users at #blahaj:chat.blahaj.zone

    We also have a matrix channel for gender diverse folk and our allies! If you’re already a matrix user, you can head straight to our application room https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone, or by searching for #gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone from within your matrix client.

    If you’re new to matrix, you can find some more details and an instruction video on how to get up and running here https://chat.blahaj.zone/c/genderverse/

    Community Guidelines

    Blåhaj Lemmy is a space where everyone should feel able to participate safely, and to that end, our community is built on the guiding philosophies of empathy, inclusion and acceptance.

    Empathy

    We want our community members to be guided by compassion and empathy for others.

    Examples of behaviour that are contrary to this philosophy are personal attacks, insults, doxing etc. If your comment is designed to hurt someone, this isn’t the space for it.

    Inclusion and Acceptance

    Embracing inclusion and acceptance means listening when people tell you who they are and what their needs are. It means not telling people that you know their experiences better than they do. It means not gatekeeping experiences of identities of others. It means no bigotry such as racism, sexism, anti LGBT commentary, ableism etc. It means doing your best to ensure that you don’t over-talk the voices of folk who don’t share your privileges.

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    After much hesitation, we have a Ko Fi to enable people to help with supporting some of the running costs associated with our instances.

    Providing a safe space for our community is the goal, so please only consider donating if you are in a position to do so without any financial stress.

    Mascot and logo

    Find out about our mascot Shonky (they/them) who appears on our site logo here.

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