She/her
I was scared too. I did it because I would need to do it at some point anyway but coming out sooner means starting medical transition sooner in my case, basically I saw coming out now to be best thing to do. If I waited I’d probably regret it. I hope everything will go well for you.
Maybe I can explain why I’m using masculine forms.
My translation of that sentence isn’t the best, I didn’t know how to translate it properly. What I said there is about people from my personal life (family members, friend etc).
I think that that my mom would at least try to understand if I send her something like this. With my dad it’s more complicated. His reaction would probably be negative at first but he may come around it later, that’s why I’m not coming out to him yet.
Matrix is similar do Discord. https://matrix.org/
Having Matrix room sounds great, I’d also like to have more interaction with other trans girls.
That’s what I did from the beginning (it looked like the only way to actually do it) but it didn’t really work first few times.
Not explaining anything would be worst thing to do with my parents, any kind of explanation would be safer.
There is no point in explaining, that account was created 2 hours ago just to hate on trans people.
Making entire account just to hate on other people looks like a very sad way to spend your time.
That’s not how it works.
Congrats, I’m happy for you. Good luck on your journey.
After playing this game I can say that it’s pretty unique. It didn’t help me in terms of exploring my gender identity but it showed greatly how confusing it can be.
Thanks, I’ll try it tomorrow.
I remember having daydreams of becoming a girl at one point too, it was 6-7 years ago when we talked about some LGBTQ stuff in biology class. Similar daydreams started happening around 6 months ago. Before I started questioning I tought it was just my curiosity because I’m very curious person but now it’s a major red flag.
I’m already 18 and puberty pretty much ended for me (it started very early for some reason). Anyway, this was really helpful comment, thanks.
I read Gender dysphoria bible before posting this but it didn’t help much. After reading this comment I decided to give another read, more careful this time, and that gave me better understanding of few things. It turned out that I can connect to more things there than I previously tought.
Repression. I had some thoughts that aren’t cis at all but in my mind possibility to be trans just didn’t exist and I had execuses for those thoughts. Society played big part there. In country where I live a lot of people are anti LGBT and whole community is missrepresented. Because of that I didn’t know what being trans actually means. After I actually learned about gender identity and gender dysphoria it took me some time to start questioning, while I realized that what I previously thought wasn’t true it still made me repress. I’m not sure how to answer 2nd question because I never really thought about my gender before my questioning phase, it was just a neutral thing to me, but I did feel like I’m different than most boys I knew.