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I get suggestions online like do my hair, makeup, etc but as a first time girl I really don’t know where to even start, so I end up doing nothing and looking like a hag and im tired of being treated like crap

  • Lumelore (She/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    6·
    5 months ago

    I don’t think you look like a hag, although I understand that thought because sometimes I think I look like a hag too. Facial dysphoria is a bitch.

    If you want some tips for makeup, I recommend starting with mascara because it’s really easy to get the hang of. All you have to do is hold it by your eyelash and blink, and maybe wiggle it a tiny bit to get it on better. Eyeliner is trickier to put on so don’t feel bad if it takes you a while to get the hang of it.

      • Lumelore (She/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        8·
        5 months ago

        We’re trans. Sadly people hate us just for existing. The person who said that you look like a hag and the people who liked it are just transphobic trolls. Don’t give any value to the words that they say.

        The people who mind don’t matter and the people who matter don’t mind.

        (I first heard that quote from Eric Andre, I’m not sure who the original author is, but I find it very useful.)

      • yuri@pawb.social
        2·
        5 months ago

        People online will also upvote blatant racism and 9/11 truthers and shit. I’m eternally grateful communities like this exist where we can talk about how fucken stupid people can be, and all feel a little less crazy. Who the fuck seriously says “hag” anyways? I’m glad I’m not that dummy.

        You’re beautiful by the way, I’d be intimidated to talk to you irl hahaha