I get suggestions online like do my hair, makeup, etc but as a first time girl I really don’t know where to even start, so I end up doing nothing and looking like a hag and im tired of being treated like crap

    • Lumelore (She/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      3 months ago

      We’re trans. Sadly people hate us just for existing. The person who said that you look like a hag and the people who liked it are just transphobic trolls. Don’t give any value to the words that they say.

      The people who mind don’t matter and the people who matter don’t mind.

      (I first heard that quote from Eric Andre, I’m not sure who the original author is, but I find it very useful.)

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      People online will also upvote blatant racism and 9/11 truthers and shit. I’m eternally grateful communities like this exist where we can talk about how fucken stupid people can be, and all feel a little less crazy. Who the fuck seriously says “hag” anyways? I’m glad I’m not that dummy.

      You’re beautiful by the way, I’d be intimidated to talk to you irl hahaha