Hey I’m new here!! :3

For context, I’m pre-HRT but have appointments coming up.

I’m curious. What do you do when you get pangs of denial? I have written dowm a list of logical reasons of why I’m a tgirl. But that doesn’t change the fact that sometimes I feel like I’m in denial of something I logically know myself to be.

Thanks, have a nice day!!

    • Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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      2 days ago

      One of the friends I’ve made in an LGBT group in a small town in Ohio is transmasc nonbinary. On T for almost a year and getting top surgery soon.

      They felt quite like you did, not entirely sure where they fell, and as they put it, “trying to find a neat little them-shaped hole to fit in. But there is no them-shaped hole, they had to find a spot on the spectrum that felt right and make the hole themselves.”

      I’m not sure if that’s helpful to you at all, but I myself have been wrestling with my identity for some time, recently settling on being trans but still filled with doubt and uncertainty (super phobic religious upbringing really hindered me here), but after an outing recently where I was about 65% girlmoding that felt more right than anything I am more certain of my identity than ever.

      It can take some time, but you’ll get there!