I myself experience sexual attraction to both masculine and feminine people, leaning strongly toward feminine, but I have a hard time imagining myself being with a binary man. It feels a bit awkward to identify as a bi woman sometimes because my sexual attraction for men just kind of exists, yet I don’t feel entirely comfortable identifying as a lesbian for the same reason. I just learned about the bi-lesbian flag/identity and it feels more right to me because I don’t want to erase by bisexuality, even if I never choose to act on my sexual attraction to men. Curious what others think.
Back in the day I’ve always just identified more as homoflexible in that regard. Like yea physically I more tend towards feminine people but I am flexible enough to have a boyfriend now.
I think to actually find what label you’re comfortable with, or just to accept to ignore labels, you kinda have to try around. For me, i’m at a point where I’d consider myself just Bisexual since in my experience there are reasons both for and against someone based on their gender (or lack there of).