I myself experience sexual attraction to both masculine and feminine people, leaning strongly toward feminine, but I have a hard time imagining myself being with a binary man. It feels a bit awkward to identify as a bi woman sometimes because my sexual attraction for men just kind of exists, yet I don’t feel entirely comfortable identifying as a lesbian for the same reason. I just learned about the bi-lesbian flag/identity and it feels more right to me because I don’t want to erase by bisexuality, even if I never choose to act on my sexual attraction to men. Curious what others think.
I see no issues with using multiple labels in any combination. If it describes you well have at it! People are complex. No system of categories can survive contact with the real world. There will always be exceptions and edge cases.
I am an asexual lesbian. You can be a bi lesbian. That’s fine too!