US is not a good choice. The current administration is hell bent on making trans care illegal and even gay marriage is on the chopping block with the currently corrupted Supreme Court willing to overturn the previous rulings and just waiting for the right case to reach them. So for rights, it’s not good. And for safety it’s really only safe-ish in large cities in more progressive states. But even the usually most progressive state, California, has been reversing course on LGBTQ+ rights. And it’s extremely expensive to live in those cities and immigration has become nearly impossible due to the current administration, unless you’re wealthy.

There really isn’t a best country, but some of the more progressive countries in the EU are the best bet right now. Canada in certain provences is ok in the big cities, but also declining. Unfortunately, not many places offer amnesty for trans people, but I’m hoping that as the state of things declines in the US, some EU countries may start to offer it.

For now, I’m in a very progressive city in the US, but it’s not safe too far outside of the city. I’ve just been doing everything I can to not “look” trans so that people don’t bother me. Wearing masks in public and not speaking unless I have to until I can get maybe some surgeries before they become illegal. That’s the best there is right now.