I’ve gone my whole life (I’m 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I’m not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I’m jealous of the youth, being old sucks.

  • those_who_wonder@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
    5·
    12 days ago

    I appreciate your perspective 🙏 I’m super scared it would ruin my marriage, which sucks because I am quite fond of my wife.

    • Kovukono@pawb.socialEnglish
      4·
      12 days ago

      Unfortunately, that’s going to be entirely dependent on her. But if you do try to bury it to keep it from her, you’ll be risking it coming up later, too. The upside is that if she does accept, you’ll have someone to talk to and confide in, and who can help you through the process.