Be somebody that the person you want, wants to be with. Don’t be a piece of shit that nobody wants to be around. Take care of yourself properly. As fun as cute helpless stinky dumb puppy is, most people are struggling enough on their own and don’t have the resources to take care of another person. Some do, but everybody has their limits. Go to therapy. Commit arson. Take a shower. Brush your teeth. Drink more water. And yeah, put yourself out there. You can do it!