• nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    20·
    4 hours ago

    you need to be out there with ADHD nerdy girl trans aura then you’ll get somewhere

  • MsPenguinette@lemmy.world
    16·
    4 hours ago

    Gonna have to put yourself out there. Finding love is about being at the right place at the right time, so put yourself in places

  • CannonFodder@lemmy.world
    8·
    4 hours ago

    Honest question: Are trans lesbians typically into other trans lesbians?

    • nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      10·
      3 hours ago

      for me I’m as much into trans lesbians as I’m into cis lesbians, which is a lot lol. t4t is popular cus trans people have an easy time understanding other trans people, unrelated to sexuality for the most part

    • Kayday@lemmy.world
      6·
      3 hours ago

      It’s a bit of a stereotype, but not as common as you might think. Those types of relationships have advantages similar to people who date someone similar to them, whether that is race, religion, culture, etc.

      You’ll probably have more in common to start out, and you don’t need to explain being trans to your partner.

  • Fei@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    4·
    3 hours ago

    Ummm both to a degree! You should shine as you and the right people will gravitate to you 🩷 I meant my gf through Discord connecting over a game we both played… Which is still unbelievable to me since I’m incredibly shy (and audhd) and rarely try to connect with new people. For well over a decade I didn’t make any new friends outside of one or two through another friend. Since transitioning, I’ve made a handful of new friends! Just be you, be patient, and share your light with others 🌟