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Quokka@quokk.au to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 months ago

clears throat 17 times before starting okay well that's enough training for today

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clears throat 17 times before starting okay well that's enough training for today

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Quokka@quokk.au to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 months ago
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  • renegadespork@lemmy.jelliefrontier.netEnglish
    30·
    2 months ago

    Voice training is so frustrating at the start, but sooo worth it (for me anyway). I had no idea how much dysphoria it would alleviate. In my experience, when people are on the fence about how to gender you, they use your voice as a tie-breaker.

    But yeah, the early stages suck. It can feel even more dysphoric in the beginning because of how uncomfortable it feels. But it really does get better with practice. Consistency is key. 5 min 4 days in a row is way better than one 20 session.

    Also, you probably already know this, but taking a sip of water will clear your throat and it’s way better for your voice.

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
      12·
      2 months ago

      Also every bit helps. I struggle to maintain full femme voice, but I went from extremely deep (ie would out anyone) to androgynous for the most part

    • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@reddthat.com
      7·
      2 months ago

      Also, you probably already know this, but taking a sip of water will clear your throat and it’s way better for your voice.

      I generally try not to drink water through the tube to my lungs tho?

      • katja@lemmy.blahaj.zone
        5·
        2 months ago

        See, that’s your mistake right there

  • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
    25·
    2 months ago

    Idk if I’m preaching to the choir here but in case you don’t know, clearing your throat is actually counterproductive to your voice efforts as it fucks w your vocal folds (according to my voice therapist). She did have advice on how to relax and “reset” them after clearing your throat though, happy to share if anyone wants in dms.

    • Another Catgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      3·
      2 months ago

      please tell me how

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        2·
        2 months ago

        Dmed you

    • Quokka@quokk.auOPEnglish
      2·
      2 months ago

      Please do dm!

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        3·
        2 months ago

        Dmed :)

    • katja@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      1·
      1 month ago

      Sorry for the late request, but please PM. 🥹

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        1·
        1 month ago

        No need to apologise, dmed you!

    • nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      1·
      2 months ago

      please dm me it

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        1·
        2 months ago

        Sent :3

    • AFlyingCar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      1·
      2 months ago

      Id love to know this too

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        2·
        2 months ago

        Sent c:

    • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      1·
      2 months ago

      Oh yes, please share

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        1·
        2 months ago

        Dmed

    • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      1·
      2 months ago

      Please share.

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        1·
        2 months ago

        Dmed

    • Shanoa (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      1·
      2 months ago

      please share, ty!

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        2·
        2 months ago

        Sent :)

    • SlayK@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      1·
      2 months ago

      I’d love a dm on that advice

      • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        1·
        2 months ago

        Dmed!

  • RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    11·
    2 months ago

    I’m in this image and I don’t like it

  • regenwetter@piefed.socialEnglish
    7·
    2 months ago

    I’m not even trying to sound like a different gender and it’s still hard as fuck (I want/need to train my voice because it’s very noticable how much my voice and general speaking skill deteriorates when I don’t use it for days at a time, which is the norm for me).

  • hedge_lord@lemmy.worldEnglish
    6·
    2 months ago

    Can’t have shit in material reality demiurge done stole my voice

  • kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    4·
    2 months ago

    Meoooow I need estrogen tho :3

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