Oh sorry, I should have been clearer, my wife is in the know and is supportive. She has been invaluable in that regards but I know she is cis and technically straight only with a past curiosity about women.

I thought about that a while now and I am not sure who actually in my life would support it besides my wife. I am sure it will create a proper rift in my family between those who do and those who don’t but I have no way of knowing who is going to be on which side.

I wish that I had the courage to follow up my cross dressing as a 13 year old. Dare to ask why it feels so good to wear a bra. But instead I felt shame and pushed it away. Now I am past 30 and at least find comfort in the fact that it’s not too late and that there is still time.

So I guess I am saying that I feel your point of view more than the meme. Though I also think the meme is trying to say that if you questioned for a long time that it is okay and that you needed that time. Then again it is a meme and they often don’t want to say anything but make a silly joke.

I wish you all the best on your way forward, I can’t provide you with any real help as I am still trying to work things out on my own and don’t know much about it all. I just want you to know that we are here to support you where we can!

Ps. I love your cat - so cute!

Thank you, it is good to hear that you have had this doubt but persevered. It gives me hope that I too can do this one day. I am just so afraid and don’t even know of what exactly.

Yay, at least I am not alone with that.

Tbh I would stop thinking if I could. Though I feel more like a cat though, could stretch it to otter and red panda but not puppy.

How do you stop second guessing yourself :3? Asking for myself