Ummm both to a degree! You should shine as you and the right people will gravitate to you 🩷 I meant my gf through Discord connecting over a game we both played… Which is still unbelievable to me since I’m incredibly shy (and audhd) and rarely try to connect with new people. For well over a decade I didn’t make any new friends outside of one or two through another friend. Since transitioning, I’ve made a handful of new friends! Just be you, be patient, and share your light with others 🌟