• recursive_recursion@piefed.caEnglish
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    15 hours ago

    Best thing to do in my opinion is to remember the purpose of bathrooms and have confidence in just walking in.

    If it helps, when I used to be a cis guy I actually applied makeup in front of the public bathroom mirrors. I tried to use the least occupied washrooms at first but gradually as the Mondays rolled I just gave less of a fuck and it just became routine at that point.

    I started using the more populated washrooms out of a rush for time. At first I was worried that I’d be gawked at but honestly no one bothered looking even while I was applying my foundation. Since everyone was probably just as busy as I was, no one bothered me at all.

    So nowadays as an out enby, I just use whatever is convenient to apply my makeup, turns out no one has the time to give a damn and that works perfectly for me and other people like yall here🤗

    • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
      1·
      6 hours ago

      this helps. my entire existence is weird and it just helps to identify as enby to uncomplicate things in one area of my life to not like, have to draw several maps with colors and zones and times of day and shit.