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If anything, in my experience there’s a shortage of tops. If another girl wants to be on top, she can go right ahead, I’m not going to stop her.
Uh… Should I advertise my services then?
Absolutely. Wear that shit as a jacket patch and I would bet actual money that you’ll pull more than you can handle 🤣
Can only speak for my experiences, but yeah usually Tops are in short supply. At the queer orgies I’ve been to it is a lot of bottoms, a top would be drowning in action
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You know, I always thought that “bigger dick tops” didn’t make much sense. Obviously it’s a power thing, and if you’re into that have fun, but otherwise if you want to maximize pleasure for both parties I’d assume that a lot of the time when you’re doing anal the smaller dick is more pleasurable.
Plus I bet most of the time when two partners with dicks are involved, they’re taking turns anyway.
it really depends a lot on the person. I personally have a really tight ass, and it’s difficult for me to loosen up, so I definitely prefer a smaller dick. however, I’ve known and dated plenty of “size queens” who prefer larger dicks, they like the feeling of “fullness.”
also you should not bet that they’re taking turns lol, there’s a lot of queers who are pure bottoms that never top ever, and there’s many pure tops who never want to bottom.
Sure, different strokes for different folks etc., but I think it holds well as a standard assumption. Definitely talk about that beforehand, though, especially if you’re a pure bottom or top or if it would be a dealbreaker for you if your partner was a pure bottom or top.
I think you’d be surprised by how many people are solely tops or bottoms, or at least have a significant leaning one way or the other. The trans girls I’ve been with* have all been significantly submissive and bottom-leaning and had no interest in being dominant or topping.
*actually slept with, not including those I just flirted with
Completely anecdotal and biased but I know a lot more size queens than not
Right? I’m into minotaurs and shit on paper, but IRL I can only handle so much.
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One of the things I was glad to leave behind in transitioning was the masculine obsessive posturing about dick size/dick power/whatever. I’m a top because I’m a top, it has nothing to do with the size or shape of my girlcock, or the size and shape of the girlcock of the girl I’m topping.
I’ve had it a few times where girls I’ve been flirting with have tried to bring that kind of posturing into the dynamic and I’m just not interested. I’m a 90% top, 80% domme, but whether I feel submissive to someone or allow them to top me does not depend in the fucking slightest on what they have between their legs (unless size is a limiting factor physically).
If someone tried to compare their girlcock with mine (“is no match for my”) I’d be out of there in a fucking flash. You earn the right to top/dom by making me confident that you will give a shit about my pleasure and wellbeing and safety, not by engaging in a literal dick measuring contest
Pretty sure it’s always arguing who’s turn it is to bottom 🤷♀️ maybe it’s just my experience
