Rudy?

sits in chair but in a girl way

I love the implication that owls are skycats!

Omg she’s so big!

I think the people who choose to use lemmy and the fediverse instead of twitter are already well aware that it’s bad to use twitter

Given this is a 3 year old screenshot, I doubt op was the one who took it

Completely anecdotal and biased but I know a lot more size queens than not

Wow, very well camouflaged.spotted the back half but was surprised by the front half when i zoomed in

Poor sweetie! It must have been so awful to be stuck inside with nowhere to poop D=

Itty bitty lifeguards!

What a little sweetie!

That seems like advice on appearance, not depression, which like still kinda eh but not “just feel better duh”

No I’m transitioning into my mom

Real talk though that was something I had to work through. Accepting that to the majority of people I’m going to look strange/odd/offputting and realizing that that’s really not what’s important. As long as I like what I look like, it doesn’t matter what others think.

We love cats that just wanna hang out around you

The cats are too consistent between the pictures for this to be ai I think.

You have your own pride! I’m so jealous, that looks so cozy

“Culture war” really implies it’s two sided, it’s really nore of a culture invasion. An attempted culture cleansing? Kind of like ukraine and russia

This was a lesson I wished I had learned sooner in my journey. I was so caught up in whether or not I was really trans and valid etc. and you don’t have to go through all that, deciding it’s what you want makes you valid. Cis people don’t decide they want to be another gender.

Varies from person to person. In general I wouldn’t worry about it too much, the way those are used is pretty gender neutral in general even though they can contextually be male. If you know you’re addressing a trans gal maybe make more of an effort for folks but I wouldn’t worry about it too much. If someone tells you it bothers them, then ya know, try not to. In general the litmus test for me is would it be a problem if they were cis? If not, then not a problem by default (if it bothers them, it’s an exception to account for)

Overall, I think it’s silly to be concerned over the use of guys and dudes instead of the tendency to treat everyone on the Internet as male.

The fact you want to be considerate puts you far ahead of the crowd!

It’s incredible how cats can just look so incredibly comfy