• pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    76·
    3 months ago

    No I’m transitioning into my mom

    Real talk though that was something I had to work through. Accepting that to the majority of people I’m going to look strange/odd/offputting and realizing that that’s really not what’s important. As long as I like what I look like, it doesn’t matter what others think.

  • blaze@programming.dev
    44·
    3 months ago

    Um actually estrogen makes us way prettier lol.

    I agree with pixeltree though, I’m definitely looking more like my mom 😆

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      19·
      3 months ago

      It’s not that looking like your mom is inherently bad, it just feels freaky when you’re not used to it.

  • 🦄🦄🦄@feddit.org
    22·
    3 months ago

    I had that thought in my head for a long time, which postponed my transition at least another year or two.

    Turns out I was completely wrong. Not only do I like myself in the mirror now waaay more than before I even have people that… desire me?? That is such a weird and novel feeling.

    • Melissa@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      9·
      3 months ago

      It is! That was SO unexpected to me. I thought I was choosing to be alone :( Nope, more love in my life than there has ever been!

  • grue@lemmy.world
    18·
    3 months ago

    I feel like that’s a bad-faith argument because the same assholes want y’all to not have access to puberty blockers etc. and (if I understand correctly) not having those masculine facial features develop in the first place is the best way to avoid that outcome.

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      19·
      3 months ago

      Insulting attractiveness is just a tried and true way of discounting and undermining women they don’t like. Feminists are just fat catlady blue haired sjws or whatever, while conventionally attractive women in media are seen as a victory over “woke” even if the media itself is explicitly goes against their fascist ideology.