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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 months ago

it's hard out here for transmascs

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it's hard out here for transmascs

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 months ago
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  • detectivesniffles@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    111·
    2 months ago

    gender affirming crippling loneliness

  • riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    51·
    2 months ago

    damn, i didnt realise even trans spaces are hostile to trans mascs :< thats ass

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      65·
      2 months ago

      It’s more that many spaces lean heavily transfem, so it’s hard for transmascs to relate or feel represented

      • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@reddthat.com
        44·
        2 months ago

        And sometimes the high prevalence of transfems in certain spaces leads to people accidentally doing things like she/her’ing everyone by default.

        • pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          12·
          2 months ago

          Lmao I’ve almost done this with my friends

    • Gustephan@lemmy.world
      19·
      2 months ago

      IME trans spaces are kinda just low key hostile to men in general. Not in the way where everybody is hostile or anything, but if you pay attention you’ll notice that misandrists get away with a wild amount of shit slinging in trans spaces as compared to most other flavors of bigotry being policed quickly and harshly

      • untorquer@lemmy.world
        3·
        2 months ago

        My experience is that it’s generally worse when in the milieu of an institution (e.g. university, larger orgs) or anywhere power imbalance is structural. That there are more examples of good in independent spaces.

        I’m not much of a gender expressionist so maybe it doesn’t translate to a transmasc exp.

  • Sivecano@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    30·
    2 months ago

    We need more representation for trans men ('cos they’re awesome)

    • Gladaed@feddit.org
      1·
      2 months ago

      Allegedly there are more transmascs than transfems in young people.

      • BiNonBi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
        3·
        2 months ago

        The gap between them closed. They are roughly equal now as opposed to transfems out numbering transmascs. Transphobes latched onto there being relatively more transmascs and use it as a talking point in support of their “theory” of social contagion.

  • Wintry@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    21·
    2 months ago

    deleted by creator

  • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world
    142·
    2 months ago

    Not trans here, but please don’t become an incel, a transmasccel, or whatever!

    • BryceBassitt@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      37·
      2 months ago

      You do know what the word involuntary means… right?

      • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
        28·
        2 months ago

        one need not have sex to avoid being an incel, nor does having sex really change a person

  • Edna (dey/sie)@feddit.org
    6·
    2 months ago

    Online sure, but offline it’s sometimes in reverse

  • heyWhatsay@slrpnk.netEnglish
    5·
    2 months ago

    I know a place in Oregon

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      2·
      2 months ago

      no way?

      • untorquer@lemmy.world
        2·
        2 months ago

        Pretty good scene in Portland.

  • Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world
    3·
    2 months ago

    Welcome to your new guy group, membership of 1. I’m off to the other side byeeeeee.

  • renamon_silver@lemmy.wtfEnglish
    52·
    2 months ago

    Why male in quotation marks. Just why.

    • Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      18·
      2 months ago

      I read it as emphasis (since the text is also all caps)

    • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      34·
      2 months ago

      Agreed, that seems wrong and misgendery.

      • Soulg@ani.socialEnglish
        15·
        2 months ago

        No it’s referring to the “male loneliness epidemic”

        • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
          3·
          2 months ago

          Then why is only male in quotes?

          • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
            111·
            2 months ago

            Because there is a loneliness epidemic, but its not centred on males

            • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
              2·
              2 months ago

              Thanks for explaining!

          • Soulg@ani.socialEnglish
            3·
            2 months ago

            The poster is a trans man and I think it’s them feeling validated as male, that’s how I read it

            • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
              1·
              2 months ago

              Do you mean the OP in this thread because if so we’re pretty sure that’s not the case.

              If you mean within the context of the pictures, sure.

      • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.comBanned from community
        4·
        2 months ago

        Removed by mod

        • stevestevesteve@lemmy.world
          11·
          2 months ago

          As if that was an experience only offered to women

          • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.comBanned from community
            2·
            2 months ago

            Removed by mod

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