Gonna be honest, I do be kinda jealous seeing posts of other people doing stuff like having sleepovers and painting nails with other girls. Problem is, that I have exactly 1 female friend (who is also an early transfem) and we dont live close enough to do stuff somewhat regularly. Also since my social skills are quite ass I am also not really capable of obtaining new friends with which I could do such stuff.

  • Ekybio@lemmy.world
    18·
    10 days ago

    If you are able to visit queer social events, maybe start there to at least find comfort in likeminded people, helped my unsocial ass quite well.

    If thats not an option, maybe a discord hangout together might be an alternave. With a webcam it almost turns into a physical social meeting.

    • da_cow (she/her)@feddit.orgOP
      17·
      10 days ago

      My Main problem isn’t that I can’t meet new people, but being able to cross the bridge from “I know this person because we attend the same social circles” to “Hey, wanna do stuff together”

      • Ekybio@lemmy.world
        11·
        10 days ago

        Then the social garhering is probably the better option, because the rules of such places are permissable to just asking people to do stuff. If you are already at the bowling alley, asking someone to play a game with you is part of why you are there in the first place.

        Now you just need to find a more suitable social thing then bowling.