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This. Everything you wrote is how I feel about it. Thank you for writing this
Just your average translater living in her goth slut era
This. Everything you wrote is how I feel about it. Thank you for writing this
Fuck no. Pirate that shit.
Damn, Nikki, look at you go! Congrats on doing it. I know how hard and stressful those initial first steps can be
Hii! 😁
My partner and my favorite season was Autumn and felt like “guess I’ll be an Autumn then 😁”
Should we wait until it’s a sure shot?
Look at that, another TERF/religious handshake straight from America’s conservative playbook. How gauche
Cute lesbian couple.
I felt just like you-- I still do when my thoughts get dark.
I started doing this when I started playing roller derby. We come in so many shapes and sizes. My “derby wife” is cis and we have the same body.
Most of us “look trans”, cis people included, because we vary so much.
The genders are made up and the points don’t matter, but if one mf’er misgenders me, this house of cards collapses.
I was at rock bottom when I came out. I figured that if it was life or death then fuck it, I’m going out how I feel I should. That was 4 years ago. I feel like the misgendering stopped at around the 3 to 3.5 year mark and that was the worst thing to happen. Keep in mind I live in a very liberal area and get hypervigilant when traveling to conservative areas.
Thigh high socks.
*YMMV
Better help sucks. They use inexperienced nurses from the south with thick accents that read from a three ring binder.
Beware of doors, car doors, door frames, etc. Your newfound nips will find them and hurt you 😄
This scares the shit out of me because I’ve seen women change their demeanor when they pick up on me being trans. It’s not a lot, but you can sense the change conversationally as well as the emotional walls going up.
I hate it and can’t wait for the day that other stealth trans women talk about a la being asked for pads/tampons, risk of being pregnant going into the hospital, stuff like that.
Is it bad that I wish someone would say “I never would have guessed you were trans” after I come out to them or drop my voice? I need validation on being stealth.
It does. Trust me ❤️
Have you only been out for a week or chose that name a week ago?
I did similar with Lupron before getting an orchiectomy. I had to take every 4 weeks though