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Sneezycat
Sound technician from Spain. Late millenial. I like videogames. I use arch btw.
Trans rights are human rights
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You’re gonna have to be more explicit. Do you mean you can’t orgasm?
I can’t talk for everyone, but for me I just had to find a different way to get the deed done. Maybe a vibrator would help?
Do you feel comfortable with people thinking of you as a man? Does it feel nice when people don’t gender you?
I feel like the only way you’re going to get some answers is through experimentation. Try out different pronouns, do they feel weird? If they do, why?
I knew I was trans because of my body dysphoria and because I “wanted” to be a girl, but I’d never felt like I was a girl. But I feel like that stemmed of a deep self-hatred, some transphobia and thinking I’d never be “good enough” to be a woman. After many years repressing it, I wanted to try though. And turns out it was the correct choice for me! It took me years to feel comfortable presenting feminine, but for me the discomfort of experimentation was better than “being a man”.
So yeah, some people figure it out immediately, for others like me it takes years, but the only way to know for sure is being true to yourself and trying things out without caring what other people will say.
Edit: oh, and yes, non-binary people fit within the trans label, although some of them prefer not to use it.
If you consider yourself a male/guy no, you’re not trans. Why do you not feel cis? Maybe your identity lies in the non-binary spectrum.
What you’ve described is being gender non-conforming, and while that can be a sign of someone being trans, it can also mean you just like some things that aren’t typically associated with your gender, and that’s fine too.
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Vampire: The masquerade@ttrpg.network•Large collection of VTM Redemption Reawakened screenshots.
3·1 year agoLighting looks like 2020, characters look like 2010, UI looks like 2000. I love VtMB and I’m excited for this release, but I’ll be damned if I’m not skeptical about it. We’ll have to wait and see I guess.
Edit: oh nvm I thought this was about VtMB 2. Apparently this is a mod recreating the original in the Skyrim game engine or something like that. That’s cool!
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LGBTQ+@beehaw.org•Lynn Conway, leading computer scientist and transgender pioneer, dies at 85
11·1 year agoYes. No, it’s distasteful.
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Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Officially Coming out to Lemmy, And Looking to Make a Community for Help with Trans Voices
8·2 years agoI recommend just using a spectrum analyzer like Spectroid. I’ve never used the one you recommend, but it doesn’t seem to have a spectral view, and just looking at your pitch is not going to help feminize the voice.
What I did is watch the TransVoiceLessons videos, learned to recognized pitch, R1 and R2 in the spectrum, and then just figured out how to use my voice to change those, visualizing them (it’s a long process, takes months).
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World News@lemmy.world•Stunning jade mask found inside the tomb of a mysterious Maya kingEnglish
51·2 years agoai ai ai aiiiiii…
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World News@lemmy.world•Turkey hikes interest rate again to 45% after inflation nears 65%English
14·2 years agoNot just economics, socially he has done everything he can to fuck over minorities.
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World News@lemmy.world•Iranian journalists celebrating release from jail charged for not wearing hijabEnglish
121·2 years agoThey are Iranian though
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RPGMemes @ttrpg.network•I'm new to DnD and my brain's too small for this Sorlock shit
1·2 years agoSome spells are “concentration”, which means you have to actively concentrate on them to keep the effect going.
You can’t concentrate on two different concentration spells at once. So when they cast Hunger of Hadar, the two ongoing Haste effects stopped, also making the affected characters lethargic, which means they can’t do anything next turn.
It isn’t even AAE, it’s using the “emphatic do”. Like “I do sing really good”.
Nothing to do with “I be singing”, which would be the AAE form of “I sing”.
In this case, instead of “it is like that” the “is” becomes “do be” (although the correct form would be “does be”).