No, it wouldn’t be great.
The article is about not letting you see it, through curation. The people who do still see it, are the people who like it. They are the people we most need to prevent from seeing it.
You not knowing something is on there doesn’t change that.
Facebook has been clearly implicated in two genocides so far.
The Amnesty International report “A Death Sentence For My Father” details how an Ethiopian doctor who didn’t even have a Facebook account was murdered directly because of incitement on that platform.
Your relation is being callous.
My tip for elderly incontinence is make a designated area (I use thick plastic like a tablecloth cover to protect the floor) and line it with Puppy Pads/ mats.
Also if you get an oil drip tray from an auto shop you can put kitty litter in it and the cat doesn’t have to step over anything to use it.