I’m deeply envious. XD

It is, yeah. Or at least I think the state requires insurers to provide it as gender affirming care.

Yeah, I’m tested quarterly. The low E works for me 'cuz I’m nonbinary and prefer a mixed hormonal balance.

For real, I’ve been on E for over two years and I’m just barely past an A-cup.

Dream surgery right there, in that I’m never gonna be able to afford that. =/

“Absentmindedly”, like it was an accident?

C-cups in a year?

Such nonsense, very 4chan.

HRT should be an early step, it takes months for any of the changes to become noticable and if you aren’t trans you’ll know very quickly.

You’re not fucked, it just feels that way because you’re breaking down walls you put up to try and protect yourself from the truth.

You’ve got at least one person that loves and supports you, and all the time you need to figure out what the cracked egg means for you. Come on out of your shell as slowly as you need to, and don’t be afraid to reach out since there are plenty of us that have gone through the same thing you’re experiencing now.

So, what, like 2 sets?

I’ve spent decades feeling out the contours of my ideal shape, of course I’d just be my fursona~<3

Valid.

I’d say try talking about your discomfort without referring to it as dysphoria. There are plenty of cis guys who get Finasteride for balding too.

And yeah! Transfem enbies are definitely underrepresented. I made it all the way to my 30’s before I saw another person like myself.

Hey, I’m enby too! =D

You might also wanna look into Finasteride, it blocks the effects of testosterone on hair follicles, reducing or stopping male-pattern hair loss.

It does! Not enough to banish my body hair dysphoria about entirely, but it really does help a lot.

This is why I tell people “any pronouns” despite almost always referring to myself as “it” or “they”. I find it useful to hear how I am percieved, it helps me figure out just how “extra” I need to dress to be seen as a person of mixed gender.

As someone genderful, I see gender as a performance, and I got the wrong script. Luckily, nobody seems to have noticed that I’m making it all up as I go along. XD

I started HRT at 36 myself. The only downside is needing a lot of hair removal that I haven’t even gotten started on yet. XD

Most problems in Africa can be traced back to either the English or the French.

Likewise! I’d love to be seen as a person of mixed gender, but I’ll happily settle for being as visible as I can.

I know exactly how you mean, you’re basically describing my exact presenation~<3

I like to say that I’m sort of the opposite of agender, genderfull rather than genderless, but it’s really difficult to achieve that look. Hell, I can go out hiking topless in public and nobody even notices my tits, my moustache might as well be an cloaking spell. XD

That is to say, there are more folks like us than you might think, we’re just one of the least visible segments of the trans community because even if you’re used to recognizing trans people and agender folk, there’s no set aesthetic for us in-betweeners yet.

I’m an it/they/he enby, and I feel you. Being somewhere between Femboy and Trans Tomboy is a weird space, even after two years of hormone therapy folks still reflexiely gender me male.

It’s awkward to be called “sir”, but until more folks start seeing people of mixed gender I’ll have to be content to put up with it.