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Cake day: August 3rd, 2023

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  • itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoRPGMemes @ttrpg.networkGood
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    1 month ago

    trying to attract attention, feeling confident in their looks or simply cute, there are many reasons they might’ve posted that. Even if it was only meant for attention (which it likely wasn’t, posting on a niche community on a small instance on an obscure platform. posts on unixsocks are mostly by queer people for other queer people), that’d be no different from the millions of other posts in communities like Roast Me or Gone Wild.

    Why do you say guys can only like this content if they’re ignorant or have a fetish? There is nothing strange about liking feminity, and for that it doesn’t matter if the OP is cis or trans. This is exactly the sort of harmful stereotype I was talking about earlier. Trans people are not trying to trick anybody, but just live their lives.










  • Thanks for sharing, and glad you’re where you are now <3

    I fortunately never got anywhere near as far down the pipeline, but with a few more bad influences and unlucky decisions it could’ve definitely have happened. I was pretty lonely and depressed back in 2018 and began following some really icky (in retrospect) anti-feminist, anti-wokeness YouTubers. For me the turn away from that came first, luckily. I made some friends in an ecology class, and that set me on a quick path toward environmentalism -> socialism -> social justice, and shortly after I figured out I was queer (thought I was a bi guy at the time, ha). However, took me another three years to finally make the connection I was a girl, actually :'D