I’m gonna ask for t for totally cis reasons now. I’m definitely a body builder and absolutely not an 🥚.

JVN is non-binary so not exactly a man but explores the gender blend and is an excellent role model for leading an authentic life.

Your story made me think of my own story where my cat got stuck down a tree because we used to live in an apartment on the 4th floor and he’d hang out on the patio, but the little shit figured out he could hop over to the giant evergreen next to us and walk down the branch and down the tree, only problem is he was heavy and the branch lowered when he climbed on it, so he could not get back up to the patio. Thankfully found him downstairs after a few hours confused af.

This was many years ago now and I have since learned all the dangers of kitties exploring outside and our cats do not get unsupervised time outside anymore.

Honestly just the fact that you’re asking and are showing the self awareness is pretty great.

I haven’t been brave enough to actually seek therapy past a few very generic counselling sessions in university, but I think the most important thing to me would just be someone who doesn’t invalidate my existence. I identify as asexual and one of my biggest fears in going to therapy is for my sexual identity to be medicalized and dismissed, as I’ve heard many others like me have experienced.

We don’t have that brand where I live but if you’re talking the liquid treats, my cats love them no matter the brand. We bought a giant pack of 60 for like $20 at Winners of the Churu brand. Also saw a big pack at Costco recently for much cheaper than anywhere else, the Catit brand.

When we buy them in the little packs it usually comes to about 1.25CAD per, but in bulk they’re pretty significantly cheaper. It’s how we give our cat her liquid medicine.