be cringe and be free

happy for you :)

what’s really worked well for me is growing my hair long, it’s really done wonders for my self-esteem to look in the mirror and see how pretty i am (no bragging)

it’s currently shoulder long (a bit longer actually) and i want to grow it twice the current length.

but clubs are mostly about competitions and I don’t like to be in competitions.

so true sister

we need more non-competitive sports clubs :D

Also btw we have a matrix chat group at #196-blahaj:catgirl.cloud and you could join :) we talk about lots of stuff, whatever interests us. i’m from austria btw so if you live close to vienna we could also meet up some time.

I’m not sure what could help you. I have found friends in a weekly meetup where we talk about politics, the weather, and anything that interests us. It’s called “young socialists” and yeah … it’s pretty cool :)

Though idk what would help you or whether that exists where you live.

the thing that pisses me off is the frequent definition of “masculine” as somebody who is a hyper-asshole, or at least centered on making a lot of noise for absolutely no reason and generally just being on a micro-rampage all the time.

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not every lump is automatically cancer, i’d say. the chances for that are small, but you should still let a doctor see it.

I think i’m not really non-straight, i just hate the toxic masculinity that is nowadays sold as “normal straight”. I guess me and a lot of people want to distance ourselves from that, hence the “queer” association.

because, at least in this context, there is no risk of confusing these two :-)

Oh that sounds just like a classic cold to me? Idk, when i have that i drink orange juice and try not to eat too many sweets, but apart from that, i just wait. wish you all the best :-)

The WHO wants to make us all gay

I’m definitely gonna copy that one. :P

jokes aside, i’m sorry and happy for you at the same time. sorry that it was so difficult, and happy that you did it :)

keep walking your path :D

maybe envy and sexual attraction are one and the same.

moving into somebody or moving into the way of being of somebody else might just be abstractions or imaginations of each other.

People who have a problem with trans people are being unreasonable. Unfortunately, a large part of our (mainstream) culture is completely unreasonable. So it’s really difficult to get through to people to tell them that trans people are really just people and should be treated as such. I guess it will take a lot of effort to really get this point across.

I suspect it might take a long time to solve this issue, but it will be solved eventually.

:D learning about yourself is mostly a good thing, especially if you can also find the patience to accept yourself :3

i raise your 3.14 to an 6.28

(circumference of the unit circle)

congratulations! :)

The same kind of dumbass who pretends to be cis, and hetero. It’s projection. They’re so used to “pretending”, they can’t imagine it could be any other way.

uuh maybe we could make a matrix group chat to figure out your situation?

ofc i also read some other wild conspiracy theories, like:

noble men in the medieval ages had a higher chance of being trans/fem because: they had to entertain diplomatic missions, and “diplomacy is made in the sheets”, which means, a higher tendency to go to bed with others will make them more attractive as somebody to make alliances with. but since they also had to organize some stuff (bureaucracy and stuff) that created a natural correlation between neurospicy and gender queer.