Native has a mens line of body wash and deoderant that blurs the line between traditionally masculine and feminine scents. I get their mens and womens stuff fairly interchangeably.
Tbh its hard to tell the difference between their gendered products and no one would bat an eye at the packaging or if asking about the scent since they dont gender the packaging much, if at all, if plausible deniability is important to someone given circumstances.
Matt Colville’s YouTube channel has a ton of this kind of content, especially during his “Running the Game” videos where he did a lot of the prototyping for MCDM stuff as well as how to make narrative ideas fit into a system based on the intent of the system.
He talks a lot about d&d 4e which serves well for this type of content since it was such a different system than other d&d/d20 in general, and also very much the opposite of fate/apocalpyse world/other narrative-focused systems.