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Cake day: August 19th, 2025








  • Hey sis,

    I don’t know if I’m saying it right, but… I think the time will come. And I am sure the gal in you, will find their path eventually. We won’t let fate fall from our hands.

    Trumpists and racists are misled people, but they lack what we have: confidence in who we are. We know we are queer. They only know to hate, and place their frustration on others.

    Tight hugs - I had a while where I had no friends except for the online ones, though this was way before I came out. It kind of helped me to feel less alone. Since you had supportive friends… is it a possibility to contact them again that way?

    Stay strong and I know better days will one time come. We weather this storm.




  • Hugs. Transphobia sucks. Online, I think it helps to report, block and ignore them. There it does work well. A community with good moderation is worth ten bad forums or social mediums.

    In real life what I usually did, is;

    1. if appearing in good faith, civil, just confused; explain kindly, have patience. If they do get annoying then, smile, ask to end it there and leave if possible.

    2. if appearing harassing/annoying and it’s in public, loudly ask to keep themselves to their own affairs and not be a creep

    3. if alone, and/or they get physicaly threatening/intimidating; pepper spray or whatever else you can do to protect yourself.

    When someone says that it’s a failure of parenting, they say that in bad faith.

    Keep in mind; it’s not your responsibility to tell them who you are. It’s on them to not be an ass!