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15 days agoNever shaving my beard, because I don’t want to see what’s underneath. Using it as a mask to hide behind.
This is very interesting. I have two MtF friends who both went through a period of having handlebar mustaches prior to transitioning. One of them hated looking in the mirror, and experimented with facial hair as a way to distract from her adam’s apple.
Is it okay for someone agender to join in this discussion?
I relate to some of these, but I don’t experience dysphoria. I was raised female but I feel zero attachment to any particular gender expression.
Some things that come to mind:
My appearance is unequivocally female today, but it’s not something I care hard enough about to change. It would require significant top surgery. If I lost my breasts I think others would be more upset than I would be - I’d just double-down on the androgynous look I had before these puppies grew so much. I have told friends (both trans and cis female alike) that I’d happily donate breast tissue to them if I could.
Anyway, so that’s an agendered woman’s experiences.