Agreed! That’s why I much prefer the “Is there any possible way you could be pregnant right now?” phrasing. Which is straight to the point of “we are about to operate on your abdominal section that could cause fetal loss if we are not aware of it, assuming you care about that sort of thing.” But if you are getting the period question, then it’s just a nurse checking off a box on an insurance checklist when you are there for an ear infection, and 100% of the time it is not relevant then.

Woops, sorry! I got immediately multiply downvoted 100%, I haven’t posted in this community before so not familiar with the culture, and even though I thought my response was relevant, it didn’t look like the community was interested in such an opinion, so I withdrew my post. I said something like that unless I am literally there do get tested for a suspected pregnancy, I would tell them it’s none of their business, or more politely, “given the current political climate, I do not answer questions like these”. Thanks for checking up on me!

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