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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • I had 3 years of twice weekly therapy focused on gender between realizing I’m trans and starting HRT. My timeline is excessive by most standards, but I felt that it was right for me. I wanted to be sure of my intentions and the outcome before taking the leap.

    It was an intense exercise of identifying my true self and determining the best steps to get there. 13 years later and I’m still certain that it was the right move.

    I’m a transman, hope it’s OK that I replied here.







  • I’ve clawed my way from homelessness to the top 10%, and it took me way too many times in OP’s shoes to learn that the best way to get ahead in one’s career is to get in line. That leaves plenty of time and energy outside of the workplace to pursue passions and try to change the world to become a better place. Work is just a means to afford that.

    Now a chunk of my income every month goes directly to an organization that helps local transfolks get access to HRT and other gender-affirming care. That’s far more impactful than anything I could have hoped to accomplish in my workplace.

    Succeed in work first, then succeed in life.


  • Take this as a learning experience. Approach your work with professionalism, not passion. Keep your head down, complete your job duties, and go home. The time+place for pitching ideas is only when you’re asked by someone higher up.

    It sucks, but that’s how you stay employed and climb the ladder. Crushing passions for the American dream.