Ember James

Super cute outfit!

I honestly have too much to say about all of this, and a lot of it you likely aren’t ready to listen to, so what I will say is this:

You deserve respect. You deserve to feel Human. You deserve to be comfortable and supported in who you are. I am sorry that this is happening to you, and I wish you the absolute best in the future no matter where it is you go from here.

Never forget you will always have people who love you, even if you haven’t met them yet, and meeting new people can be scary. Especially when you believed that you already knew them.

It is no problem at all. I am not super active these days but feel free to reach out if you ever need to vent or just need someone to talk to. We are all in the same boat and I know sometimes all you need is someone who understands. :)

I don’t know if it will help you, but something I like to do is save pictures of cis Women with similar features as me to help remind me that their is not one way to look as or be a Woman. In your case I would recommend looking at Women body builders. Your shape looks almost exactly like theirs to me, and I don’t see a Mans back when I look at you. Actually, funny enough, we have a really similar shape and I thought I made an alt account for a second… lol

But I know dysphoria is a bitch and a half, and you may not see it, but I hope you start to see beyond it soon. Just know there are people out their who see who you are even when you don’t!

Wishing you the best on your journey and never forget that Women come in all shapes and sizes. :)

Thank you very much for the help and suggestion, I really appreciate it. :)