My elderly relative is already growing frustrated with her. He suggested putting her outside again.

  • A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.worldEnglish
    131·
    2 years ago

    and whether you want to lift a finger for your relative once he’s in a similar position.

    Seconded on all counts, especially this one

    • beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      12·
      2 years ago

      Hoo boy. The number of cat people here chanting HARM THE RELATIVE is … worrisome. Starting to think cat people aren’t the best people.

      • A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        2 years ago

        Refusal to help isn’t an intent to harm. You get what you give 🤷‍♀️

        • beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone
          12·
          2 years ago

          Ehh. Granted, your response wasn’t “Put him outside instead” , which was the response of others

          But refusal to help when they’re in a similar situation - that’s easily neglect. So please don’t think you came off better than others