Do you mind if I ask why a cage helps with bottom dysphoria? I’ve been seeing a lot of cage-related content on lemmy, and I’m not sure I understand why they’re so popular.
I mean, wouldn’t I want something that keeps me tucked all the time, rather than something that prevents me from tucking?
You can wear a cage all the time, and it does for some reason feel like it’s not there anymore for me then. Or at least doesn’t feel like a dick. And idk about tucking, I’d guess it’s not really practical on a daily basis.
It would help with my anxiety about random erections (I still get anxious even though I can’t remember the last time that happened 😅), and I do hate how it makes me feel when people always want me to top.
Maybe I should do some research, see if there’s something like a cage that keeps everything tucked. Or at least smooth enough to wear tighter fitting clothes.
Do you mind if I ask why a cage helps with bottom dysphoria? I’ve been seeing a lot of cage-related content on lemmy, and I’m not sure I understand why they’re so popular.
I mean, wouldn’t I want something that keeps me tucked all the time, rather than something that prevents me from tucking?
You can wear a cage all the time, and it does for some reason feel like it’s not there anymore for me then. Or at least doesn’t feel like a dick. And idk about tucking, I’d guess it’s not really practical on a daily basis.
It would help with my anxiety about random erections (I still get anxious even though I can’t remember the last time that happened 😅), and I do hate how it makes me feel when people always want me to top.
Maybe I should do some research, see if there’s something like a cage that keeps everything tucked. Or at least smooth enough to wear tighter fitting clothes.
Hiii I do have a recommendation for that! :3
Look for “gaffs” or if you are in the EU the ones I always order should be shipping to you:
I have some of the first and second link there https://www.binderme.de/de_DE/c/Unterwasche/26
Don’t know why it’s a German domain afaik they are based in Poland.
Edit: never mind, am just stoopid girl lol, here is the US link
https://www.binderme.com/en_US/c/Underwear/26