• Crozekiel@lemmy.zipEnglish
    65·
    18 hours ago

    If you want to play let’s pretend with dice, that’s fine. just be honest about the kind of game that you’re running from the get go so I know not to join your table.

    That is the game of DnD, Pathfinder, or really any other TTRPG. What it sounds like you want is war games. Go play that. Just because the only parts of the books you’ve bothered to read/remember are combat rules, does not make that the majority of the books.

    I feel like video games calling themselves RPGs have ruined entire swaths of people to what an RPG means. These are games about telling a story, not who can do the most damage. You sound like an awful person to have at the table. You aren’t “being punished for being good at the game”, I’d argue you actually aren’t good at the game because you only care about or focus on one aspect of the game and ignore the rest of it.

    Stop looking at TTRPGs as video games, as a means to make big numbers go brrrrr, and (re-)read the core rulebook. You’ll find a lot more of it than you are suggesting has nothing to do with combat when you aren’t looking at it through a lens of “how to combat”.

    • glitchdx@lemmy.worldEnglish
      1·
      9 hours ago

      you have no idea how badly I want to play dnd 4th edition.

    • Soulg@ani.socialEnglish
      73·
      18 hours ago

      The person you’re replying too explicitly said that not playing the game the way they do is fine, yet you’re here telling them that they’re playing it wrong and should play something else. That is psycho shit. Just don’t play with each other, which by the way was the other person’s point all along. They didn’t once yuck the yums of people who play differently.

      • glitchdx@lemmy.worldEnglish
        31·
        9 hours ago

        I won’t deny that I’m being an ass, but I will point out that the conversation started with the original post effectively calling me a bitch. Me being somewhat of an ass is a measured and proportionate response.

        • Soulg@ani.socialEnglish
          1·
          8 hours ago

          I mean, yeah absolutely and I agree. I didn’t say you were being nice, but the double standard where they think they get to tell people who they accuse of metagaming (whether they are or aren’t) that they’re playing it wrong and to do something else when they would go absolutely insane if it was the other way around has always triggered me immediately. Just let people play the game they wanna play it

        • Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.comOP
          1·
          8 hours ago

          No, the conversation did not start out with you being effectively called a bitch. A meme was posted that you decided to take incredibly seriously and incredibly personally. But you are 100% being an ass.

      • Crozekiel@lemmy.zipEnglish
        6·
        18 hours ago

        Wat? They absolutely are belittling people that play the game as it is written… You think “play let’s pretend with dice” is not meant in a derogatory way just because they said “that’s fine” after? Even then followed up with basically “you won’t catch me doing that”. Their entire post is absolutely “yucking the yums” of everyone that doesn’t play DnD as a combat only tactical board game.

        • Soulg@ani.socialEnglish
          1·
          8 hours ago

          I never said it wasn’t derogatory, and yes actually, acknowledging that different ways to play the game are fine does absolutely make it okay. “Tell me ahead of time and I won’t play at your table”

          “You won’t catch me doing that” ya bro they want to play the game the way they have fun and not force themselves to play it a way they don’t enjoy for the benefit of others. And instead of letting that be, you have to whine and okay the victim.