Moldy Monday continues.

  • uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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    21 days ago

    I have a personal hypothesis that self-proclaimed alpha [males] may feel the same gender dysphoria that trans folk do, only it is the sensation that they present less masculine than they actually do, so in their effort to attaining a little bit of machismo they go way overboard.

    It’s similar I think to the way Donald Trump can be President of the United States, and still feel fragile and unworthy.

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      23 days ago

      Lol, so if I’m hearing you right, people who yap endlessly about “being alpha” are “beta to alpha trans”?

    • glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      23 days ago

      I’m pretty sure it’s dysmorphia rather than dysphoria. Dysphoria is rooted in an accurate picture of yourself and dysmorphia in an inaccurate one. If a guy starts going to the gym because the idea of not being able to bridal carry his girlfriend makes him feel unmanly, I’d agree that’s some flavor of gender dysphoria. On the other hand, someone like the liver king thinking he still doesn’t have enough muscle is definitely body dysmorphia.

      But I’d agree that (similar to dysphoria) the so-called alphas often have dysmorphia of more than just the body - they worry they come across unmanly in all ways of their presentation, regardless of how much “masculine energy” they’re already putting out.

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      23 days ago

      This is an understatement. History tells many tales that have passed through the ages that men in this instance have still not learned.

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      23 days ago

      Yeah this is a favorite pet theory of mine as well, partly because I like imagining guys like Andrew Tate protesting being labeled “trans alpha” or whatever, but also because it’s just a fact that many cis people experience a form of gender dysphoria and commonly seek hormone therapy for it at early ages.

      I’ve found that comparison usually clicks with uninitiated cis people immediately, even when they’ve only heard othering and alarmist narratives up to that point.