hello! I’m Chloé, a nerdy ace trans gal :3

this is my lemmy account that I use sometimes. I am also on the microblogging side of the fedi at @carotte@toot.cat :3

pronouns are she/her

  • 0 Posts
  • 19 Comments
Joined 3 years ago
Cake day: June 13th, 2023

  • yea, once the kitten is weaned, feeding becomes your responsibility and you shouldn’t overfeed it.

    but when it’s the mother… honestly i don’t think it’s a health risk for the kitten for it to be a bit plump during the first few weeks of its life. i’m not a veterinarian tho, so if i’m wrong feel free to correct me













  • it feels a bit boring to say, but… i’ve never had sex, and i don’t want to. if sexual attraction really is feeling desire to be sexual with someone, then i’ve never felt it.

    my journey of discovery was also pretty uneventful, as a teen i realized that people my age were pretty much all interested in sexual acts, and i thought, “hey, shouldn’t i be interested in that too? shouldn’t i feel sexual attraction too?” and then i remembered asexuality existed, looked it up, and went “yep that sounds like me!”

    i have felt romantic attraction tho, once, and it was a very weird feeling that i can’t really describe… i think i’m on the aromantic spectrum as well but i’m way less sure of that than of my asexuality

    sorry if that’s a bit of a boring answer, i guess my sexuality is just “nope” 😅


  • i mean, there are many transphobic opinions one may have which aren’t in conflict with “trans people are the gender they say they are”

    it’s often what comes after the dreaded BUT

    examples of transphobia (and enbyphobia) where this applies
    • trans women are women BUT they shouldn’t be allowed in female shelters if they get abused
    • trans men are men BUT kids shouldn’t be able to transition, they should wait until they’re 18
    • nonbinary people are nonbinary BUT we shouldn’t change language to reflect them since they are so marginal in society

    imo opinions like these are even worse than blatant bigotry, cause the people who say them often present themselves as safe and “allies”, so they’re much more pervasive and harder to ignore