In that case, it’s less about the country, and more about how large and diverse the specific city is. I live in Austria, which is super conservative and Catholic, but Vienna is, as far as I can tell, a great place for what you described. I’m sure the same exists within many other countries as well.

Some other info that would make it easier to help as well: OP, are you looking for accessible gender affirming care and name changes, etc? Or is it about feeling safe within the community as an openly/visibly queer person?

As far as a can tell, Germany and Sweden are undergoing similar shifts to the right as the Netherlands.

Possibly controversial: if it’s obvious they don’t like it, don’t put it on them. They’re living beings, not dolls.