Carighan Maconar

The strength of life to face oneself has been made manifest. The persona Carighan has appeared.

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Joined 3 years ago
Cake day: July 1st, 2023






  • So sorry for your loss. :'(

    I’m living here with a very old lady whose sister has left us a bit over a year ago, and I cherish every day I got left with her, but she’s also very old. Letting a pet go is always super tough, but I’m so grateful for the time I get wtih them.




  • Friend has a gecko, and he’s being fed with crickets and the like. Which are also absolutely beloved by her tomcat, he always gets one (hunts it, swats it, eats it) whenever the gecko is being fed. 😂









  • Just listen to a vet instead. Cats can eat a lot of things, but they can process only very little. They’re carnivores through and through, and evolved to deal with a diet consisting entirely of small animals they’ve hunted down, but also all of them (not just the selectively removed meat parts we as humans consume).


  • I will say that over the lifetime of my two cats so far (one died last August, the other is now 13y old), the insurance paid less than if I had just saved up the money and paid it myself, and by quite a margin.

    It depends on whether you can do that, however. On average you’ll save money by paying it yourself, but you need to be in a situation where you can have the cushion of money around to finance cat surgeries and dental work and so on.


  • I was in the same situation last august, also the first time I had to deal with it. All my hugs and condolensces, it totally tore me apart. I have the sister - Pepper - left now (she’s 13), so at least I’m not quite alone, but wow is there a hole in this flat as Chili was always the active one doing all kinds of shenanigans. Missed dearly :'(

    Months later, it’s… okay. I am happy about the time I had with Chili, not sad about the loss. It’s a difficult perspective to take at first, but it’s how I want to remembered, so it’s how I shall remember others, too.


  • Well in my case my two cats did this a lot when they were young. But it just naturally dropped off with age.

    As time passes they get used to always getting their food (fixed times help, tbh, but then in turn they’ll start to wake you when its food time 😂), and just less active in general, and then like now my remaining cat of 13 years looks up when food goes into the bowl, checks that food actually did go into her bowl, then continues snoozing. 😅

    (edit)
    One thing you can try is have 2-3 treats on hand and throw them far into the room for him to run after and dig out while you prepare the food, of course. That’s not exactly changing behavior, just distracting him. But hey, physical exercise, too!



  • Yeah this is sadly based mostly off of the fact that the world is not good right now. There’s a lot of larger-than-life issues, and none where a single person can, without impacting their personal quality of life significantly, make a dent in. And probably not even then.

    This makes a lot of desperate, confused and fearful people very easy targets for a party such as the AfD telling them it’s all just lies, there is no climate change, there is no pandemic, no nothing, and grab easy voters that way so they can push their actual agend, being nazis and getting themselves rich.
    (Because as always they keep lying about how they’re fighting for the common folk, but if you look at what their politicians actually vote, it’s always empowered rich, removing restrictions, easing tax theft, and putting more financial strain on the common workers)